Friday, May 6, 2011

Finals, Life, and TOO Much Stress

I have decided that I am probably one of the blondest people that God ever made.  The past two weeks have also been some of the most trying weeks of my life.  Lucky for me, I ended up with the flu last week, and I am still recovering from that, along with being blessed with ALL DAY long sickness associated with my pregnancy.  The following story will give you a little insight on why I feel so blonde and stressed.  After studying for nine hours today for a listening comprehension Spanish final that was due by midnight tonight.  After submitting the study sheet that I worked on all day long, I was very bummed when it did not show me what I got right and wrong on the worksheet.  Grudgingly, I go ahead and take the test since I was running short on time.  I have had an "A" in the class all semester, and that makes me so happy because when I take a class, I take it with every intention of gettin an "A" and I usually work very hard, shed lots of tears, and lose lots of sleep and family time to make the grade I do.  I took the Spanish final, submitted the test, and to my dismay, I did not make a very good grade at all on the final.  I am praying that the second portion that I am to take next week, will make up for this horrible mistake.  After shedding five minutes worth of tears, I began to close out my blackboard windows, when I noticed that there were some scores showing over the practice sheet I did.  Sure enough, I totally looked over the answers to the practice worksheet.  I don't know if this is what being blonde will do for a person, or if maybe I can get away with saying this is what stress will do for a person.

All I can say at this point, is what is to be is what is going to be.  I am giving everything my best shot, and if I am unfortunate enough to make a bad grade, so be it.  This is what I get for waiting six years to go for my bachelors degree.  My mind just does not seem to be quite as sharp as it was at one time in my life.  For anyone who reads this petty little blog...best of luck to you on your finals.  BRING ON SUMMER BREAK!!!!!

MoDOT Is Officially Closing Offices

With a week full of big national news that I am personally getting tired of hearing about, I decided to try to focus my blog on something more local this time.  I do not make that statement out of disrespect, because I am truly greatful for this big step in the right direction.  However, I just am tired of hearing all the bickering and fussing between the political parties over who receives credit for the happenings and so forth.  This week I have noticed that the headlines for this area have focused quite a bit on the fact that MoDOT may be closing it Joplin offices doors.  I saw the front page of The Joplin Globe this week that stated that the doors to 135 MoDOT offices, including the Joplin office were indeed going to be closed, and also many employees were going to lose their jobs as a result of this.  From what I understand, this is the results of a massive budget cut that the state is suffering from.  The budget is being cut by $512 million by 2015.  MoDOT making cuts  Not only is this going to result in approximately 1200 individuals losing jobs.  The number employed will go from approximately 6300 to 5100 when this is all said and done.  MoDOT to reconstruct  Additionally, there is also going to be something like 740 pieces of equipment sold as well.  This seems like a bad thing as well because there will be less equipment available to take care of our roads in the winter.  This would also mean that some of the projected projects may get completed at much slower paces than originally thought. Although, they state that we citizens should not see any changes in the up keeping of the roads in the winter, I cannot help but wonder.  I know that Neosho has seen bad times with their roads when the County could not afford enough products to take care of all the roads, so in my mind, I just see the state being that way as well.  This cut is expected to save approximately $500 million from what news reports have stated.  MoDOT closing offices to help the budget

I just feel for all the employees that are going to be out of employment.  I have never quite understood how unemployed people help the economy, and why the layoffs.  Also, along with all of these changes are going to be new district lines.  These lines are going to be drawn for the first time since 1922.  I do not know what all changing district lines will result in, but hopefully it does not end up in a change of counties for me because that would be something else to get fixed, seeing how I just got everything switched over from moving from Newton County to Jasper County.  I hope everything turns out for the best for everyone involved and for us as well.

Friday, April 29, 2011

The Royal Wedding

I just felt like I had to blog about the Royal Wedding that took place today.  I mainly want to blog about it, so that I have on record that I was around when it happened.  I will admit that by about Wednesday, I was getting pretty tired of hearing about the couple.  It seemed like they were all over television and the internet.  I really do not care about all the small details, but I guess there are those out there that do care.  I also felt the need to blog about the special day just because I am pretty sure I said that I would be in a previous blog.  I am sure many of you may not give a care, but I think it is pretty cool that I was alive to remember something as "important" as this event.

I did NOT get up to watch the wedding because I was sick and did not really care at that time of day, but I did watch a replay video of it later on in the morning and I of course, was mesmerized the whole time.  I thought the bride wore such a gorgeous dress.  Everything was so beautiful and perfect and I enjoyed reading and hearing about the different things that are passed down as well as the traditions of over there.  I was amused when I read something that stated that Catherine "modernized" her vows by leaving out the part that said she would "obey" her husband.  I never realized that something like that was in the vows in the first place.  I also read that there would be a "second dinner or such" take place later on today that queen would not be invited to.  The reason she would not be there, is because it is an event for just young people to "let down their hair" and enjoy the moment. There is something about watching a wedding or being at a wedding that gives me a new love for my husband and just makes me feel young.  Almost like I am truly a kid again.  I felt exhausted after my wedding, but I cannot even imagine how exhausted this couple will be by the days end with all the activities that have taken place.

I also enjoyed seeing all the beautiful and unique hats that everyone was wearing.  I think hats make the ladies look so sophisticated and elegant.  On a side note, even though I am not a hat kind of girl, I think that the women in the United States should embrace that style. 

If my two cents worth matters, I think that William did a very good job, and his mother would have definitely approved.  I always thought that Princess Di was a beautiful and respectable woman and Kate does not seem to be any different.  I wish the newly wedded couple the best of happiness in their marriage, and I hope that it is a very long-lasting marriage for they surely seem like they make a great couple from what the news shows us.

Tragic Weather

As I was trying to think of something to write about today, all I could seem to think about were the deadly tornadoes that went across parts of the United States this week.  I am so saddened to see the pictures on the news and hear about the lives lost.  It is all too familiar of what we experienced in 2008.

Weather is something that has always been of interest to me.  I am amazed by the awesome powers that the weather has.  It is amazing how so many tiny snowflakes can multiply and cripple an area such as what happened to this area in late winter.  Even more astonishing to me is how a tornado can tear up so much in just a matter of moments.  I have a great amount of respect for severe weather though, so I could never be a storm chaser.  The other day, right after the tornadoes occurred, I read an article that stated that there were over 800 tornadoes touch down in the United States just in the month of April.  I cannot seem to come across that article to cite it, but if that is true, that is absolutely astonishing.  I have always heard that everything happens for a reason, but sometimes I cannot help but question how everything that came from these storms is for a reason.  I definitely do not see how it can be a good reason.

As I was reading the news today, an article that caught my attention, mentioned that a tornado that went through Smithfield, Mississippi had winds of 205 mph.  A tornado with winds of that intensity is considered an EF-5 tornado, which was making it the first EF-5 tornado since 1966.  Link 1  Another article I read, stated that the death toll from these deadly tornadoes is now up to around 318 and close to 300,000 people are without power.  Things like this can be so hard to cope with and it seems like when there is a lack of power, or water, it just makes things all the harder and much more miserable. My heart goes out to the people that have been effected by this.  It is so sad when people lose their lives so suddenly.  I know that it is sad any time a life is lost, but when someone has been warned that they will die at some point, it seems that it would be a tiny bit easier at least, to cope with it.  The article also said that this storm outbreak is the deadliest storm outbreak since the great depression.  Link 2  This is also the most devastating disaster that the United States has faced since Hurricane Katrina. 

With all that being said, I feel more fortunate than ever.  If I understood the weather right, earlier this week, this same line of severe storms were expected to go through the Joplin area.  However, we were fortunate enough that these storms moved past us.  I also have a friend that was my best friend from grade school that lives in Alabama that I heard from.  I feel very thankful knowing that she is safe as well as her family.

Friday, April 22, 2011

A Big Secret I'm Letting My English Class In On

On Wednesday of this week my husband and I found out that we are going to be parents again.  This is something that we were going to try for in a few months from, but God knows what is best in our lives, and we are expecting one now instead of later.  I should say, hopefully it is just "one."  We have decided though that since we are very early into the pregnancy and my job is very strenuous and stressful, that we should not annouce it to anyone until at least the second week of June.  However, we are also toying the idea of not telling anyone, and just letting everyone figure it out on their own, in their own time.  I still look somewhat pregnant from my son, in my opinion, so I may be able to pull it off for quite awhile this time compared to my first time around.

With all that being said, I responded very differently to finding out with this baby than I did with my son.  With my son, I felt like I was going to faint when I found out, but then I was so excited I could not hardly contain myself.  I believe this is because I was new and had NO IDEA what was in store.  With this baby, I instantly started crying because I had a million and one fears hit me.  I am just getting back to working on my bachelors degree, I have a very physically challenging job that I will most likely be stuck with because people will not hire pregnant women.  I also, had the fear of how on earth I can ever be a decent mother to two children.  I was just getting to where I was seeing the results I wanted from all the weight I gained from my son.  I also had a rough pregnancy and an even rougher delivery with my son.  Last but not least, I have the scare of how we can ever afford this baby.  After hours and hours of stressing and crying, while dealing with an ecstatic husband, I finally decided to leave it in God's hands.  He has given us this baby, and I know that He will take care of us and make sure that the baby is taken care of as well.  Now, I am just praying for an easier pregnancy and delivery than the last one.  Last but not least, I think this one will be another boy!!!!

Lindsay Lohan

As we all most likely aware, Lindsay Lohan is a popular news topic, and has been for quite awhile now.  As I was looking desperately for a topic to blog about for this week, the one with Lindsay Lohan's name in it caught my eye.  I feel like this girl has it rough in a way, and sometimes I cannot help but want to blame some adults that were in her life as a child for her turning out this way.  I feel that girls like her have been put on public display a such a young age always seem to struggle with issues such as her.  I just feel like these kids are pushed to fame for doing a great job at something, but when they are pushed to fame, they lose the quality time that with their family.  By losing this quality time, they are not allowed to be taught important things that other children are taught.  Also, I think possibly that their popularity may make them feel invincible, and once they realize that they are not invincible, then it is to late, and they are in the kind of trouble that Lindsay Lohan is in currently.  Some people also believe that some just enjoy the attention that she is getting out this deal.  If so, maybe we should blame the news people for broadcasting every move she makes.  I also try to keep in mind though, that news often broadcasts all the bad that happens, and unfortunately, not so much the good that happens.

I read that she is spending time in jail again for violating her probation.  Not only is she getting jail time, but she is to do community service as well.  This probation she violated comes as a result of getting out of jail early the last time.  Sadly enough, according to the news, she has already been to jail three times.  She has obviously not learned her lesson with the past times that she has spent in jail.  However, she obviously is not mature enough to learn her lesson yet or something.  This is where I put the blame back on the adults that pushed her at too young of an age.  According to the news video on ABC, she even thought that she could get out of going to jail until a different day for religious reasons since it is Good Friday.  I really feel like if she was truthfully religious she would be obeying the laws of the land and taking responsibility for her actions, not violating probation, stealing, drugs, and all the other things she has been involved in.  I know that I am stricter than most on my religious beliefs and what I think religion will do for one.  However, with all that being said, I really do hope that someone can find something that will work for her, and help her mature and learn her lessons so that she will not be a main topic in our news way too often. 

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Friday, April 15, 2011

Decisions.....

I have been debating a tough decision for the past month.  My time is running out and I must quickly decide what I am going to do with my summer.  I will be honest, this is my first semester of school since 2005 and I am not as young as I used to be.  I am also a mother, wife, and an employee.  When I was in college before, I was just an employee, and I did not work all that much.  With all that being said, I need to decide if I am going to take summer classes or not.  I really want to just move on with this school stuff so I can graduate as soon as possible, but however, I am SO burnt out and worn out that summer seems to be the only relief in sight, other than after I have received my degree.  If I take off this summer, I could focus on working more and saving up money that we lost when I was unemployed for almost six months.  However, if I take at least one summer class, that is tough, I could be one step closer to my goal.  The goal being, the owner of a Bachelor's degree. 

My other reasons for thinking I should take the summer off, is that I feel like I get to spend little to no time with my husband and son.  My son is just a year old, and this summer would be a great time to tackle potty-training and start teaching him things that I am so often to busy to teach him for being wrapped up in school.  My poor husband has had to pick up so much slack for me since I have started back to school.  He is so awesome for cleaning the house, putting away laundry, and helping me keep the dishes clean.  However, he is a guy, and he does this at random times and it gets pretty bad before he does it.  If I don't take classes this summer, at least I could be a decent wife, and maybe we could even get in a date or two.

As I already stated, I don't even have a clue which one I will do right now.  Take at least one class or take the summer off.  However, I just hope I make the best decision for everyone involved, so that we can be the happiest possible.

Plastic Surgery

Last night as my husband was on the internet, he came across a story that was in the news.  It completely astounded me when my husband read off the title of the news story.  It was Girl Gets Plastic Surgery To Avoid Bullying.  First off when I read this, I was saddened that bullying has become such a big issue.  I believe bullying can be cured in the home with correct parental guidance, work, and necessary punishments.  However, in today's world, punishment is a big deal.  It takes nothing for an individual to abusive when punishing a child.  Therefore, I could also blame more than just parents for bullying become so rampid in our world.  Second of all, I was sickened by the thought of a parent allowing this, let alone the medical personnel that okayed this procedure.  Also, on the thought of bullying, adults need to think before they speak.  Many times the things that come out adults mouths is ridiculous, and if a child or young adult was to say it, it would be considering bullying.

This child is only seven years old, and the parents felt like this was the only option so that girl would quit being teased about her ears.  Her name is Samantha Shaw and she was born with "cup ears," she also had a "lop ear" on the right side, and the mother as well as the daughter worried that she would be bullied as she grew older, thus the reason for doing the plastic surgery.  Her plastic surgeon stated that he would recommend plastic surgery on children depending on the issue.  If it is cosmetic alone, he does not suggest it.  However, with this girl, he feels like this is an issue that is much further than cosmetic and it is okay.  This surgeon feels that any abnormalities will put children at a risk for being bullied.

As I watched the video of this child, it was hard for me to not be happy for the girl after she had the procedure because she looks so happy.  http://news.yahoo.com/video/health-15749655/child-gets-plastic-surgery-to-avoid-bullies-24902719;_ylt=AmAgImRyLrcoxl3cbsrePx2z174F;_ylu=X3oDMTE3MTBtbjVlBHBvcwMyBHNlYwNtb3N0LXBvcHVsYXIEc2xrA2NoaWxkZ2V0c3BsYQ--#video=24918610  However, it is still sad that this girl had such a big procedure done at such a young age just because people today are so rude.  Hopefully when people read this story, instead of just criticizing everyone involved like I was quick to do, I hope that it causes people to stop and think about what comes out of their mouths that causes these things to happen.

Friday, April 8, 2011

Facebook and Bullying

Facebook is something that almost all of us have nowadays.  If we do not have one ourselves than one has at least probably heard of it.  I really enjoy my Facebook somedays, however, there are some days that it disgusts me.  Those are the days, as well as the days I'm overwhelmed by school, I just stay far away from Facebook. 

This week has been one of those weeks that Facebook has disgusted me to the limit.  I am very frustrated by the people that get on there, and make comments on someone else's status that seem innocent, but yet you personally know that are intended to hurt or bring someone else down.  I saw that so many times this week that I decided I just had to stay away for a few days until this person cools down.  There is obviously not just one individual that does this unfortunately.  I just noticed this particular individual carrying on. 

I did get curious however on the rules and regulations of facebook, so I looked them up.  Under the Terms section of Facebook I did find this.  Rule #6 under the Statement of Rights and Responsibilties of Users Safety portions states this, "You will not bully, intimidate, or harass any user."  http://www.facebook.com/#!/terms.php  I could probably get this user in trouble if I wanted to, but yet I don't know that Facebook would actually find what they are putting a problem unless they would have a way to see posts that this user puts and then deletes once they have caused the hurt intended.  I do feel bad for the people that are being harrassed though, and I may just get brave and report it one day.  Bullying is something I do not like, and I have always said I will not tolerate.  I don't feel like this should be an exception, but I need to find the courage to take action.  It may seem mild and innocent in and of itself right now, but as the anger towards the individuals grows, it could become serious.

Facebook is definitely an awesome resource when used for its intended purpose.  However, it is so easy to use it to bring someone down.  I hope that I can find the courage it takes to start speaking up whenever I notice that someone has been bullying via Facebook.

Monday, April 4, 2011

Radiation, Radiation, Radiation

I will be the first to say, that I do not really comprehend everything with the radiation and nuclear power plant situation that has been going on in Japan since the terrible disasters that occurred there last month.  I was reading the news though, and I did come across an article on the topic that grabbed my attention.

According to experts, the radiation is not supposed to become a threat to sea animals or anyone who eats them. I knew that this threat of radiation could obviously have effects on people on land, but I had never considered the sea creatures, or the fact that people eat them.  http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20110404/ap_on_sc/us_sci_japan_radioactive_water  The article states that since the ocean is so vast, that the main threat is to the sea creatures that are close to land.  It stated that it would be possible for those sea creatures to suffer from genetic mutations as some point if the dumping continues.  Also, the ocean is diluting the radiation that comes into the water, which is also keeping most of the seafood safe for eating.  http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2011-03-31/sushi-safe-from-japan-radiation-as-ocean-dilution-makes-risk-negligible-.html  This may not matter much to many individuals, but as for me, I find it very important, because I love to eat fish.  It is my preferred choice of meat most of the time.  However, it is possible that the bigger fish that are not typically caught may have a higher risk of being contaminated more significantly by the radiation.

With all the sea life that was damaged from the big oil spills, it is nice to know that more of it is not in danger.

Friday, April 1, 2011

Growing Up and Life Choices

Over the past two years I have been trying to decide what I want to do with the rest of my life.  Since working in the dental field over the past three and a half years, I decided that I wanted to do dental hygiene.  However, my first problem with entering that field, is that we as a family cannot afford me to not work full time.  The prerequisites for dental hygiene would require me to either go to school during the day, five days a week, or go to school at night.  Neither of those options are family friendly for my situation, and neither of them would work out at this point in life.  My second and most important problem with choosing dental hygiene for a career path is the availability of jobs.  My brother graduated in 2008 as a dental hygienist and he is one of the few in his class that have a job in their field.  He has a job due to the fact that I was an assistant and helped him get on and the office I worked for at the time.  If I am going to spend money on college, I want the peace of mind knowing that jobs in my field will be available in this area at the time of my graduation. 

With that option being out of my choices, I am left with the decision of which career path to take.  Family is so very important to me, that I want to make sure I have a family friendly career.  I also know that there are some careers out there that would never suit me.  There also the careers out there, that I do not think I could ever pass the requisites required because I am terrible at math.  I am finding this decision to be one of the most stressful decisions of my life so far.  I want to do the right thing for me as well as my little family.  Maybe it is a sign of immaturity on my part, but I know that I am not the only one that struggles with this.  I just hope that I can decide something within the next year, so I can put my mind at ease a bit more than what it is at this point.

Is Your Pet Eating Healthy

Anyone that has been following my blog has by now figured out that I think my pets are tops.  Along with having a pet that I love comes the need to take special care of it's health.  Each time we go to buy dog food, my husband and I can never agree on what dog food to buy.  Some dog food just seems outrageously overpriced and others are so cheap that I know it can't be made out of anything more than junk.  My husbands theory is "buy the cheapest out there."  However, my theory is that the cheapest dog food cannot be healthy, and I always want to spend a little more.  So how do you know which dog food is best for a pet?

My cousin has raised dogs most of her life.  When we adopted a dog from her back when I was a child, she told us to never feed our dog dog food that had by-products or bone meal listed as one of the first three ingredients.  Keeping that in mind even til this day, I cannot let myself buy my pets food with those ingredients listed.  However, I started paying closer to attention to the ingredients recently, and some of the more expensive dog food has one of those two listed right at the top of the list.  I have finally decided to research this and settle it once and for all.  For my sake at least.

According to http://www.callofthedog.com/healthydogfood.php and http://www.healthyfood4dogs.info/blog/dog-food-ingredients, any dog food that contains wheat, barley, and corn as the first of ingredients, have little to no nutritional value to a pet.  By-products are also not nutritional if given in large amounts like commercial dog food gives.  All commercial dog foods claim to be better than the other, but the truth is, all dog foods are still full of the same chemicals that could be harmful to a dogs health over time.  For a dog to technically be fed a healthy diet, one would have to prepare the pet's meal from scratch and make sure it is full of raw meats, and healthy veggies.

So, with all of this being said, I guess my husband may just get to start buying somewhat cheaper dog food than what I have been accustomed to buying.

Friday, March 18, 2011

PiYO

I have decided that I want to take my life in a new direction.  I have worked out for years, but I never stick with it to where I see the results that I would like to see.  I finally decided that what I need is accountability.  I had a friend that began working out with me five times a week.  This was all going well until she moved.  I was then left looking for a new workout partner.  I found my new workout partner, and we have really had fun going to the gym, measuring our waistlines, checking our weight, and comparing results.  However, she has now moved as well, and I am left all alone and needing that accountability again.  In a result to hopefully help this problem once and for all, I am going to Tulsa his weekend to become a certified PiYO instructor.  This is a workout program that I have not found in the Joplin area, but when I watch videos of it, I find intriguing to me.  I am hoping that this will open a new door for me, and help me be prepared for summer, as well as bring a new fun fitness program to the Joplin area.  My only thing left to do now, is to contact places to see where I can teach and what places will be the best fit for me.  I am so nervous about heading up a class on my own, but at the same time I am so excited to see with this new journey takes me.

Unique Full Moon

As I was reading through the news today trying to decide which topic was interesting for me to blog about, I came across the perfect one.  I really enjoy watching the moon come up in the evening and see it set in the sky.  I think it is a beautiful thing, especially if the skies are cloudy and the moon pops in beautiful whiteness out from behind a looming cloud.  With that being said, it is no wonder than I picked to blog about the unique full moon we are expected to have tomorrow.

Tomorrow afternoon we are expected to experience a unique full moon.  These moons are only viewable about every twenty years.  The last one was seen in 1993.  This moon is referred to as a "supermoon."  Scientists say that it is not to be associated with any natural disasters.  The moon will just simply be the closest to Earth that it ever will be for 2011.  It will appear larger as well as brighter during this time.  http://www.space.com/11161-supermoon-full-moon-science-infographic.html  In October, the moon will be the furthest from Earth for this year.  The only thing out of the ordinary expected from this is that it will result in a dramatically large range of high and low ocean tides.  http://news.yahoo.com/s/space/20110318/sc_space/supermoonrisesbiggestfullmoonin18yearsoccurssaturdaynight  I will definitely be keeping an eye out to see this moon that will look pretty impressive. 

Friday, March 11, 2011

A Wedding Fit For A Princess

I have always thought the world of Princess Diana.  I believe she was an amazing individual and a great example to follow.  With that being said, I have been one of the fans that have been following the Royal Engagement and upcoming wedding of her son Prince William when I have the extra time.  I am going to be one of the many that will be watching the wedding take place on April 29th.  I find it very interesting how their wedding is not just going to take place in the church and that is it.  They will be taking a route that goes past several famous landmarks on their way to Westminster Abbey.  http://www.officialroyalwedding2011.org/blog/2011/March/10/Pictures-of-the-Royal-Wedding-Procession-route

However, in all of my reading up and listening to the latest on this important event, I have not yet heard about things that are always discussed about weddings in the United States.  By that I mean, things like the wedding theme, colors, flowers, songs, and other things we always hear discussed when talking about a big wedding here.  About the only things I know about for sure, is that the reception will take place at Buckingham Palace, the wedding at Westminster Abbey, and the processional along famous landmarks.  Maybe noone else cares too much of these types of things, but I am a hopeless romantic, and this kind of thing just grabs my attention.

http://www.officialroyalwedding2011.org/blog/2011/March/1/Buckingham-Palace---a-history
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Earthquakes, Tsunami's , Family, and Friends

About 4:30 A.M. this morning, I was awake when I would have preferred to be sleeping peacefully.  After lying there for over thirty minutes with sleep seemingly far away, I decided to grab my phone and check up on what was going on in the Facebook World.  Never did I expect to see something that would cause so much shock, awe, and concern.

I discovered that an earthquake of the fifth greatest magnitude in a hundred years had hit Japan.  I also saw there that people in the United States were now at risk for a Tsunami as well as Japan.  http://www.foxnews.com/world/2011/03/11/thousands-roam-tokyo-streets-massive-tsunami-devastates-region/  This absolutely astounded me, and I began to think about all of my old high school classmates as well as my best friends.  Some of these individuals were in Hawaii, some in California, and some in Japan.  I frantically waited to see them post something on Facebook in hopes of knowing that they were alright.  Thankfully, all of the posted within an hour of me discovering all of this, and they are all safe.  The areas that got hit the hardest are not the areas that these individuals reside in. http://video.foxnews.com/v/4580409/anatomy-of-a-tsunami#/v/4579888/incredible-video-massive-wall-of-water-sweeps-ashore-in-japan/?playlist_id=87485

So many times I hear of catastrophes like such as mentioned, but I never have had it hit "close to home."  All in all I am glad they are all safe, but at the same time, my heart goes out to those that have lost so much and that are suffering like we will never know. 

Friday, March 4, 2011

Annual Ticket

I believe that some people were put in the world not realizing that they have a sign somewhere on them that states "please pull me over."  Lucky for me, my husband is one these individuals.  It seems like he ends up getting a ticket every year.  It is crazy to me that he always gets a ticket out of something he does out of complete innocence.  He doesn't ever seem to get pulled over speeding, running a red light, etc.  It is always something "ridiculous" in my opinion.  Last Monday is a good example of what I am talking about.  He along with everyone other employee that he works with, pull out of the business in to the center lane on Rangeline.  When they get a chance, they then will pull out onto Rangeline.  I personally think that it is the only way to get out without waiting ten minutes or more some days.  Also, my husband is from St. Louis, so this is definitely the way he is used to driving. 

Unfortunately, when he pulled out on Monday, he was pulled over and informed that the center lane is for turning only.  He was also given a court date and it resulted in a fine of $112.00 and we are still unsure if this is going to show up on our insurance.  I just think that it really stinks that first of all, the lane cannot be used for this purpose.  Secondly, I do not understand why he got ticketed.  There is nothing around Joplin that I have seen that would state that doing that is illegal.  How are we supposed to know?  I just don't know that I can agree with it.  If he would have been stopped for speeding or running red lights, I would completely understand.  This however, just confuses me.  I definitely appreciate our law enforcement, but I really wish they would have given him a warning for this type of issue.   

The Humane Way for Animals to Pass Away

I receive CBS news updates on my Twitter account.  Those notifications are also sent to my phone.  I do this due to the fact that I normally don't have the time to watch television or sit around and read the news online or in the paper.  This week, my attention was drawn to a particular story that was out of the ordinary to what I normally receive.  The story was about a puppy that was "put to sleep" but ended up surviving.  The puppy was one of five stray dogs in the Oklahoma City area that Sulpher animal control officer Scott Prall put to sleep on Friday of last week.  He thought he put this dog to sleep at least.  However, Saturday morning he went out to find the trash bin with dead dogs in it to have an alive dog in it.   http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2011/03/03/earlyshow/living/petplanet/main20038675.shtml?tag=pop

After reading this article it made me start thinking about what is exactly the "humane" way to put animals down.  My husband is a total country boy, and he feels that nothing is a better option that a "bullet to the head."  However, I could NEVER let him do that to one of our pets.  I always was for putting animals to sleep, but this is the second story like this that I have heard of in the past year.  With that being said, it made me start thinking about how I would want my animals to pass on if I was put in the situation.  I know that the animals must suffer from a certain amount of pain with any option given when it comes to their passing.  However, I feel for myself, that I would want to give my own pets some kind of pain relievers, and just make their passing as comfortable as possible.  I would not want any kind of aid.  I want them to pass away on their own.  I probably feel this way due to the enormous place in my heart that I have for animals.  Noone else probably agrees with my option, but this is my personal decision that I have came to as a result of reading this article this past week.

Friday, February 25, 2011

Marriage and Maintaining Weight

As you may have probably figured out by now, I am very into health and fitness.  It is important to me to be fit and healthy.  I feel like it is the one gift that I can give to my husband and children.  For my husband, I think it is a gift for him for me to be fit and healthy so that I can live a longer, healthier and happier life.  I know that if something happened to my physically, that he would be more than happy to take care of me, but the less stress he has in life, the better for his health as well.  As for my son, I think it is a gift I can give him as far as being a mom that can run and play with him without falling over out of breath, to be able to go out and live an active lifestyle and pass it down to him.  However, when I got married two years ago, it seemed that I hit a bump in the road that I have yet to get over.

I was once again reading an article an Yahoo health that they got from Rodale.com.  The article is titled "Marriage Keeps Wives Fit; Husbands Get Flabby."  I had to read this article because this is exactly opposite of what has happened in my two years of marriage.  The article stated that women usually are motivated to stay fit by having support from their spouse and family.  Men are more motivated by friends rather than their spouse or family.  http://health.yahoo.net/rodale/PVN/marriage-keeps-wives-fit-husbands-get-flabby  I cannot say this is true for me.  I stay motivated by having motivated people in my life, but since becoming a wife, mother, full-time student, and full-time employee, I just cannot seem to find enough hours in my day, week, or month to fit in a decent exercise like I did before taking on those responsibilities.  My husband however, seems to be able to keep fitting exercise into his life, and therefore he has maintained his shape, weight, and fitness levels since our marriage.  I know this is probably irrelevant to anyone else, but this was the most interesting thing I read about this week, just because I would have to disagree with it.

Heart Health Awareness Month

As most of you probably already know, February is "Heart Health Awareness Month."  With that being said, I thought I would list a few things that I have found out that can keep your heart pumping like it should.  Some of these I have learned from my schooling, some are common sense, some I have learned from being a dental assistant, and the others I came across in an article I read on Yahoo Health.  Granted, we cannot prevent hereditary traits from taking over sometimes, we can do our best to keep it at bay for as long as possible.

Since working as a dental assistant for three and half years, I have heard over and over during the time to "floss your teeth to keep your heart healthy as well as your mouth."  Periodontal disease is linked to heart disease due to all the bacteria harbored below the gum line can be harbored in the bloodstream and cause heart blockages.  So, with that being said, take a minute out of your day to floss and brush your teeth.  Also, be sure to take a few hours out of each year to have semi-annual cleanings and checkups done.  Your heart deserves it from you.

We all know that stress is bad on the heart, but lack of sleep can cause unwanted stress on us, and we may not always realize it.  Stop during the day, and take a quick nap.  Researchers found that men who stopped during the middle of the day for a 30 minute nap were less likely to have cardiovascular issues than those who did not nap. http://health.yahoo.net/experts/drmao/6-surprising-ways-heart-longevity

Own a pet.  Another way that I think a person can prevent heart disease, is by being a pet owner.  When you have a pet, it keeps you much more active than you may realize.  Pets can be alot of work as well as fun.  They will keep you moving, smiling, laughing, or cleaning up after them.  Any time spent moving around has got to be better than sitting in front of the television munching.  Also, according to this article http://health.yahoo.net/experts/drmao/6-surprising-ways-heart-longevity, studies have shown that owning a pet can keep the blood pressure lower as well as lower the bad cholesterol.

So, as this month comes to a close, keep in mind throughout the year that these simple things can possibly lengthen your life, or at have the possibility of having a life with one less medical issue.

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Yorkshire Terriers

I have a Yorkshire Terrier that I have had for three years this April.  I had wanted a Yorkie for about two years, and searched and searched for the "perfect one" before I found "Taguchi."  He was just a four month old pup when I adopted him, I paid far too much for him, but he was everything I wanted.  He is by far, one of my very best of friends.  He is only five pounds, but he will fight the biggest of dogs out there.  He has been hit by a car, smoked by a football, attacked by our neighbors extremely huge dog (four times now), and he still goes strong.  He is a very dominate little guy, and probably one of the most jealous of creatures that I have ever known.  He has had quite an adjustment over the past eleven months, when he had to let a little baby come into his life, and be placed before him.  However, he has done extremely well for the most part.  I became very curious to see if all Yorkie's are like mine, and if not, what makes him have this "big dog" personality.  I also was interested in knowing if they are considered an "intelligent breed" or if they are just average.  Also, I was curious as to what features were "required" of them to be "show dog" material.  Although, I have no desire to put him in any dog shows, I was very proud to discover that he had all the qualities needed to be in a show.

These dogs are stated by the American Kennel Club to be dogs that offer "big personalities in a small package." http://www.akc.org/breeds/yorkshire_terrier/index.cfm.  These dogs are lively as well as physically and mentally quick.  We often say that our dog "trots" around everywhere, and he's always on top of his game.  As I researched, I found out that this is definitely one of the things that is true about them. http://www.yourpurebredpuppy.com/reviews/yorkshireterriers.html.  However, my dog is a barker.  If anyone or anything comes onto his property, he is sure to make a very shrill announcement of it.  This is because they must be socialized alot at a very young age, or they will not do well with new people or things.  My dog was not socialized until he was adopted because he was kept in a very small enclosed glass cage at a pet store.  The is also extremely bossy with other dogs, especially our Golden Retriever.  Another trait they have is that they can be very opinionated.  My dog has this trait without any doubt.  Housebreaking is known to be difficult with this breed due to the fact that they are so low to the ground, and very "prissy."  These dogs often do not like to go out when there is snow, rain, or dew on the ground.  This makes for difficult housetraining.  I have definitely found this to be true in my case.  Also, if we leave him at home when he wants to go somewhere with us, we are sure to come home to some nuggets somewhere in the house.  An awesome trait this dog has is that they are long haired, but shed very little.  They do need brushed and groomed regularly, but mine has never shed, which is an awesome thing if you have allergies.  I was also informed by the people that I adopted him from, that Yorkies come from a hunting background.  I can agree with that statement, because mine chases any living creature possible.  My dog is defintely high-strung due to being spoiled before our baby came along. 

Yorkshire Terrier Breed Standard

Toy Group

General Appearance
That of a long-haired toy terrier whose blue and tan coat is parted on the face and from the base of the skull to the end of the tail and hangs evenly and quite straight down each side of body. The body is neat, compact and well proportioned. The dog's high head carriage and confident manner should give the appearance of vigor and self-importance.
Head
Small and rather flat on top, the skull not too prominent or round, the muzzle not too long, with the bite neither undershot nor overshot and teeth sound. Either scissors bite or level bite is acceptable. The nose is black. Eyes are medium in size and not too prominent; dark in color and sparkling with a sharp, intelligent expression. Eye rims are dark. Ears are small, V-shaped, carried erect and set not too far apart.
Body
Well proportioned and very compact. The back is rather short, the back line level, with height at shoulder the same as at the rump.
Legs and Feet
Forelegs should be straight, elbows neither in nor out. Hind legs straight when viewed from behind, but stifles are moderately bent when viewed from the sides. Feet are round with black toenails. Dewclaws, if any, are generally removed from the hind legs. Dewclaws on the forelegs may be removed.
Tail
Docked to a medium length and carried slightly higher than the level of the back.
Coat
Quality, texture and quantity of coat are of prime importance. Hair is glossy, fine and silky in texture. Coat on the body is moderately long and perfectly straight (not wavy). It may be trimmed to floor length to give ease of movement and a neater appearance, if desired. The fall on the head is long, tied with one bow in center of head or parted in the middle and tied with two bows. Hair on muzzle is very long. Hair should be trimmed short on tips of ears and may be trimmed on feet to give them a neat appearance.
Colors
Puppies are born black and tan and are normally darker in body color, showing an intermingling of black hair in the tan until they are matured. Color of hair on body and richness of tan on head and legs are of prime importance in adult dogs, to which the following color requirements apply: Blue: Is a dark steel-blue, not a silver-blue and not mingled with fawn, bronzy or black hairs. Tan: All tan hair is darker at the roots than in the middle, shading to still lighter tan at the tips. There should be no sooty or black hair intermingled with any of the tan.
Color on Body
The blue extends over the body from back of neck to root of tail. Hair on tail is a darker blue, especially at end of tail.
Headfall
A rich golden tan, deeper in color at sides of head, at ear roots and on the muzzle, with ears a deep rich tan. Tan color should not extend down on back of neck.
Chest and Legs
A bright, rich tan, not extending above the elbow on the forelegs nor above the stifle on the hind legs.
Weight
Must not exceed seven pounds.
Disqualifications:
Any solid color or combination of colors other than blue and tan as described above. Any white markings other than a small white spot on the forechest that does not exceed 1 inch at its longest dimension.
http://www.akc.org/breeds/yorkshire_terrier/index.cfm

As I read through the qualifications, I found that Taguchi did have all the physical qualifications needed, and that also made me proud to be his owner.  As you can tell, I am very proud of this dog, and I hope to be able to breed him someday, and pick out one of the puppies that has a personality like him.  These dogs are not for everyone, but ours definitely fits in well with our little family, and he is as much part of the family as any of us.

Shakeology

About a year ago, I was just leaving the gym, when I noticed a stack of papers advertising something called SHAKEOLOGY.  I picked one up, and begin to read about this nutritional shake, and I was very interested in it.  It supposedly gave you all the servings of fruits and vegatables that one needs daily.  It was supposed to help in the digestive process, it showed that it was proven to lower bad cholesterol by 38%, and this product was also backed by the American Diabetes Association.  It is suppose to aid in weight loss when used as a meal replacement, and with three moderate workouts a week.  It is also said to be proven to help maintain an increased energy level after four weeks of use.  I really wanted to try the product, but I was about to give birth to my son, this product was quite costly, I didn't know if I could use it while I was pregnant, and so I just pushed it out of my mind, even though I really wanted to try this "miracle" sounding product.

In December, I noticed one of my high school classmates kept mentioning it on Facebook.  She also said that she was an Independent Distributor of the product, and she had nothing but wonderful things to say about it.  Since she had started it, she was able to quit two different medications that she had been taking for her digestive system, she had lost weight, and had lean muscle mass for the first time in her life.  Once again I was awed by this product. (Note:  I normally am not one to fall into things like this, but something about this intrigued me from day one.)  I have struggled with digestive issues all my life, and some days I am willing to try just about anything to help out with the annoyances and pain that it brings at times.  Needless to say, I gave in and sent her a message asking her for more details as far as pricing on this product.  I found out that I could sign up to be an Independent Distributor and sell the product myself, as well as get it for about $50.00 cheaper.  I signed up in December, placed my order a week ago, and I am now in my first week of doing this daily shake.  I have not seen amazing weight loss results or anything yet, but so far I have went two days without ANY stomach issues.  I cannot wait to see if this continues, or if it is just a coincidence.  I can barely imagine life without stomach aches and all the other annoyances that come with stomach aches.  Another thing that has impressed me so far, is that I can actually drink this shake without having to hold my nose and swallow like I do with most shakes.

Here is a list of what they say you would have to eat to equal one glass of this SHAKEOLOGY.  It is pretty hard to fathom, but when you look at the list of ingredients, and then figure it all up, it is true.  Like I've already stated earlier, I am very excited to see what this product can do for me.  Keep in mind that this is just the fruits and veggies part of the shake.  There are other herbal ingredients in the shake that are supposed to aid in weight loss and other health issues.

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

What Kind of Personality Do You Have?

I am a person who believes that ones personality can effect their health.  I have been known to make statements like "no wonder they had a heart attack, they are always worrying about the smallest thing and making them big things."  Another thing I've said is, "it doesn't surprise me they have cancer, they take life way too seriously, and stress is so bad for the body. "  I also believe that people who work themselves all the time, and never stop to take care of themselves properly are also at a high risk of health problems.  I know that health problems are not always linked to lack of excercise or bad eating habits, or smoking, etc.  However, I do still think that an individuals personality traits can cause them to do some of these unhealthy things that can lead to bigger medical issues.

This week I ran across an article online that talked about all those things that I think about.  I also have noted several things from personal experience since I have had the opportunity to work in the medical field.  It also made me stop and think about how I act myself.  I know that I do tend to stress out about things that I could just let be.  School is my big one.  I am so worried and wrapped up in getting a perfect grade that I think it causes me to get a bad grade at times.

The article I read states that people with a hostile (type A) personality are at a higher risk for heart disease, irregular heart rhythms, and psychological issues.  Many times hostile people tend to eat and smoke more and excercise less, which puts them at a higher risk for diabetes, high cholesterol, and high blood pressure.  http://health.usnews.com/health-news/family-health/heart/slideshows/how-your-personality-affects-your-health/2.  People like this can also tend to be impulsive, which could lead to bad choices and decisions.  If a person can get counselling, these personalities can suffer less severe side effects from what their personality trait brings them.  Also practicing things like meditation, yoga, and deep breathing can also help calm one.

The next trait is the relaxed trait (type B) personality.  These individuals seem to take life as it comes at them, and just go with flow.  A person like this is less likely to have heart disease issues.  They say that lower anxiety also strengthens the immune system.  Apparantly my high anxiety that I have had ever since I've started classes must surely account to why I have been sick ever since I started school.  People that are more relaxed are also less likely to suffer from gastro-intestinal issues. http://health.usnews.com/health-news/family-health/heart/slideshows/how-your-personality-affects-your-health/4.

People who are outgoing are also proven to have lower stress levels.  A 2009 study published in Perspectives In Psychological Science say that mingling with others leads to improved coping skills and healthy behavior.  This can go beyond medical and just be positive influence.  For example, if you begin working out and eating healthy, a group of your friends may have the same desire. http://health.usnews.com/health-news/family-health/heart/slideshows/how-your-personality-affects-your-health/5

Type C Personality:  The people pleaser.  These people are known to need to be pushed sometimes.  If they are having a medical issue, they seem to want to ignore it and just complain about it, hoping that someone else will hear about it, and take it in their hands to get something done about it. http://health.usnews.com/health-news/family-health/heart/slideshows/how-your-personality-affects-your-health/6.  They also seem to be so passive at times that it gives them a somewhat negative attitude.

Distressed people or Type D individuals seem to notice nothing but negative.  People with a negative attitude are much more likely to be substance abusers or overeaters.  http://health.usnews.com/health-news/family-health/heart/slideshows/how-your-personality-affects-your-health/7.  All of those issues can of course lead to other medical issues such as heart disease, diabetes risks, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, liver problems, as well as others I may not know about it. If you feel badly, you are more likely to make yourself better by justifying things such as substance abuse or overeating.

Optimists are much more likely to live longer than a pessimist.  http://health.usnews.com/health-news/family-health/heart/slideshows/how-your-personality-affects-your-health/8.  An optimists is going to value life more and of course they will if they are looking at the glass half full rather than half empty.  A pessimist is defintely going to be more likely to suffer from depression due to their outlook on life.  However, there is a line that should be drawn with optimists.  Someone shouldn't be so optimistic that they feel invincible to the reality of life.

Now, I have to just figure out for sure which one of these categories I fall in to, so I can be more aware that I am coping with life in the best way possible, so I can live the healthiest life possible.

Sunday, February 6, 2011

Where Do We Draw the Line?

Being a first time mother, I am constantly worrying about the small things in life, like when is it too early to start correcting my child.  What kind of punishment is acceptable and will teach my child to become the best he can be, and what is too much?  With that being said, my attention was drawn to the story I saw in the news this week about a mother that used hot sauce and a cold shower for punishment to her child.  http://www.abajournal.com/news/article/mom_in_spotlight_for_hot_sauce_and_cold_shower_discipline/
http://abcnews.go.com/US/hot-sauce-mom-jessica-beagley-charged-child-abuse/story?id=12796871

This lady in the news feels that it is okay to punish children with hot sauce because it is only a brief moment of pain that could save a child from a lifetime of pain.  She was shown on the Dr. Phil show in November where they played a video of the incident that another one of her children had recorded.  It showed her punishing her seven year old, Russian adopted son, with hot sauce and a cold shower for lying.  Just where do you draw the lines in these kinds of situations?  The lady is now being charged with child abuse.  I feel that she was very wrong for doing this in front of her other children.  Not only was her son punished, but may have felt humiliation as well.  The other problem is, there are books out from what I understand that teach that this kind of discipline is wrong.  In my opinion, any discipline that brings physical harm to a child is wrong.  When it comes down to a person's control issues getting in the way of child punishment, one really needs to be careful because it can lead to abuse without one thinking.  That being said, every child is different, and every child may learn differently.  Also, I'm not an experienced parent, so I do not mean to point fingers and act like I know it all.  I know how I was raised, and I believe I was raised well, and far from abused.  But, just where is the line drawn these days?  I just try to take one day at a time, and learn from my son, and pray that God shows me what to do in as kind of a manner as possible.

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Financial Aid Update

I was so excited on Friday, when I logged into my school account for the fifth time and found that my financial aid had been processed, and that I could remain a student.  This was such a relief to me, and definitely an answer to my prayers.  Now if I could just decide for sure what I want to do with my life, that would be a wonderful thing.  I have been working at St. Johns Hospital since December, and there is alot there that makes me interested in a Nursing Career as well as the things that make me want to run in the opposite direction.  I think at this point that I want to be a Pharmacuetical Sales Rep, but I do know that it is a very difficult field to get into, therefore making me wonder if I should do Nursing instead.  However, with all this being said, I am thankful for the people that worked hard to get my financial aid processed even if it was at the last minute.  I figured if I was going to gripe about it in one my last posts, that I should give an update on the status of it.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Link to Missionary Shooting

http://www.cnn.com/2011/WORLD/americas/01/26/mexico.missionary.shot/index.html

Valley woman dies after being shot near San Fernando

Valley woman dies after being shot near San Fernando: "Authorities are investigating the death of an American woman who was allegedly shot near San Fernando and came across the Pharr International Bridge seeking help."

Drug Wars in Mexico

This week the situation with the drug wars in Mexico really hit home with my family and friends.  A missionary that had been working in Mexico for close to 40 years was shot by drug cartel yesterday.  A truck approached them, and when they sped up the truck begin following them, and their truck was riddled with bullets, and one bullet struck the lady in the head.  My dad had stayed in this family's home when he was younger, and they were such nice people.  You just can't help but wonder why she of all people was attacked by them.  Her husband drove against traffic at approximately 120mph for around 70 miles.  I can't even imagine what he must have been going through while trying to drive her to medical help and safety.  I had never really given the whole situation in Mexico much thought, but now I am curious about the whole ordeal going on, and why it has gotten so out of hand.  I will post some links of some of the different stories just in case they are of interest to anyone.

My Gripe with Financial Aid

This is going to be more of a gripe fest than anything.  The school's financial aid about drives me crazy.  I turned in all my financial aid last semester, but I didn't end up being able to attend.  I'm finally enrolled this semester, and I'm very excited to finally be on the "right track." I have contacted my financial aid advisor, she said that I had done my part and she was pushing everything through, and that I should be good by Friday.  Unfortunately, here it is Thursday, and nothing is finished.  I have done everything on my part, but I'm still waiting on them.  I'm beginning to get nervous because I just recently got a job after being unemployed for almost six months.  Since I have been unemployed, I obviously don't have the money to make the first payment if I set up payment plans.  This just irritates me slightly.  I hate how every time I've been enrolled, everything goes smoothly except for the financial aid part.  The most important part in my opinion.  This hasn't just happened to me, but to my siblings and friends as well.  I totally understand that there are thousands of us to take care of, but this just stresses me out.  I guess the moral of this post would be, why does financial aid have to end up being so difficult, and stress me out every semester?  This semester is off to a pretty great start other than for this.

Monday, January 17, 2011

Welcome

My name is Faith Knight.  I am a very happily married mother of a beautiful baby boy, and I have the two coolest dogs on the planet. ;)  I work full time, and I have waited far too long to continue my education and get my Bachelors.  I am very excited to be a student again, but I am extremely nervous about it as well.  I am majoring in Marketing because I'd really like to be a pharmaceutical sales rep.  I've wanted to do this for years, and I am one step closer to my goals.  My little family stays extremely busy all the time, so this may be a real challenge for me, but I love a good challenge.